Part One: I will never judge again in my life

I will not infer,think or hold as an opinion of a person s' lifestyle,choices,dress,culture,religion,political opinion. Not because I am not a judge lol but,I should do less judging and more loving and giving! There is a lot of judging going around and I want to get off this merry-go-round ride. You know it says "be the change you want to see". I have to stop myself from feeling that I have to judge everything that doesn't sit well with me,or that does not agree with me. With the amount of education,technology and knowledge is in this world that we have it is sad that we still live in a society whereby we still form judgement and opinions on how people ought to live their own lives? If you are not helping this person grow and being a positive influence in their lives how do you expect them to listen to you or respect you when you judge them? When you judge a person and when they look at your life is your life exemplary? When you judge someone you automatically right them off as a misfit. No one wants to feel like a misfit,no one wants to feel like they do not belong or shunned upon. So at the end of the day we all fall in a trap of trying to belong and we lose. You end up being not the person you want to be. It is important that we all be the person who we want to be and not what the world needs you to be. I feel very strongly now about passing judgement out whenever than I did before. People you cannot judge a book by its cover until you have been in a situation that they have been,until you experience what they have,until you see,feel,smell,hear what they did  and not until you walk in their shoes. Many of us today cannot be who we want to be because of judgement,fear of being decided upon critically. It makes me wonder how many dreams are being broken,talents that are not being showcased,voices that are not being heard,how many are are sacrificing more than they are willing to give just to be acceptedor appreciated? I am not saying I should not be responsible for my actions or do as I please ----> YOLO lol or  have pleasures without a conscience. I am saying I do not want to judge anyone ever again in my life,I am living my own life and it is right that I do my best and work to my full potential and be respectful and  considerate towards others who are trying to make the best out of their life. It is crushing and hurtful to be judged and at the end of the day we still say "we all make mistakes" so If we all make mistakes and have a few things that we regret then why judge when you can accommodate,help,give and tolerate? Tell me what you think people,what are your views and what do you call judging and in what circumstances would you judge a person? Its been real,this is the Voice of R----> Be your own JUDGE! Follow @Ms_Bimanator Tweet

Weekend Diaries: Gossip,laziness and Macking

The weekend is a goner and well I spent it sitting trying to get some work done but I felt like I was out all weekend! Man United won(red devils) yay!
Gossip,it  is like a train without a station and with it a lot of people who are stuck on it not knowing where and when to stop. People just love the drama we should all be on days of our lives. But look, it is what is, lets call gossip what it is idle talk,nothing more nothing less. I am not talking to a gossiper but to those who worry about the gossipers talking about them,it is stupid that you worry about what some other person thinks,says or their opinions if it is not who you are or what defines you, move on, its trifling you just trying to start drama. Let them talk they will get tired. Let attention pay you,you do not pay attention. Whatever happened to saying "whatever" and that is what I just did this weekend,you are wasting your energy, put it to something positive and useful.
Laziness,damn-it is the root of all evil! WTH,I had two full days and before I know they are gone. Time waits for no man! Does anyone have a formula on how to eliminate laziness? I need a laziness vaccine lol. I will get back to laziness later I am trying to apply effort+discipline+focus+hard work this week lets see if laziness will still come out a winner, come on I have assignments! Anyone feel the same?
Macking(for those who do not know Macking is:To make moves on, show your game, try to get with the person),been a weekend of one guy saying this,this one saying that,the other one telling it like....crazy. I cant, how is a girl supposed to function? I am just going to repeat Jersey shore again and go into hibernation call it a day on dating. Maybe I should read Great expectations again by Charles Dickens? Its either I have great expectations or I do not trust anyone to be with me. Do you believe in dating and how does dating work for you guys? Why do you get into a relationship? Share your voice! This is the Voice of R! It been real :) Follow @Ms_Bimanator Tweet

Voice of R is HERE!!!!

Get excited,I am assuming I am talking to a few but maybe many,for this is the Voice of R. You know how people say they want to be heard,voice their opinions,feelings,thoughts,views,yell yaba daba doo whatever -well I feel the same and I decided to give a shot at my own blog! Voice of R is all about me connecting with the outside world,getting my inner voice out there there speaking-the R standing for Ruvimbo(in my native language meaning Faith-so yeah maybe it is the Voice of Faith lol) but for the few or maybe  many I am talking to The Voice of R means Voice of Reason, a Voice of Respect,Voice of Rebel,Voice of Rational- Rabble,Radiance any word that begins with an R but speaks to you it can be Ridiculous,voice of ridicule but this is a blog that is a diary for people who want to live their life as they see fit and how they can always be the best they can! Join in on the voice of R and let your voice be recognised!



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