Part One: I will never judge again in my life

I will not infer,think or hold as an opinion of a person s' lifestyle,choices,dress,culture,religion,political opinion. Not because I am not a judge lol but,I should do less judging and more loving and giving! There is a lot of judging going around and I want to get off this merry-go-round ride. You know it says "be the change you want to see". I have to stop myself from feeling that I have to judge everything that doesn't sit well with me,or that does not agree with me. With the amount of education,technology and knowledge is in this world that we have it is sad that we still live in a society whereby we still form judgement and opinions on how people ought to live their own lives? If you are not helping this person grow and being a positive influence in their lives how do you expect them to listen to you or respect you when you judge them? When you judge a person and when they look at your life is your life exemplary? When you judge someone you automatically right them off as a misfit. No one wants to feel like a misfit,no one wants to feel like they do not belong or shunned upon. So at the end of the day we all fall in a trap of trying to belong and we lose. You end up being not the person you want to be. It is important that we all be the person who we want to be and not what the world needs you to be. I feel very strongly now about passing judgement out whenever than I did before. People you cannot judge a book by its cover until you have been in a situation that they have been,until you experience what they have,until you see,feel,smell,hear what they did  and not until you walk in their shoes. Many of us today cannot be who we want to be because of judgement,fear of being decided upon critically. It makes me wonder how many dreams are being broken,talents that are not being showcased,voices that are not being heard,how many are are sacrificing more than they are willing to give just to be acceptedor appreciated? I am not saying I should not be responsible for my actions or do as I please ----> YOLO lol or  have pleasures without a conscience. I am saying I do not want to judge anyone ever again in my life,I am living my own life and it is right that I do my best and work to my full potential and be respectful and  considerate towards others who are trying to make the best out of their life. It is crushing and hurtful to be judged and at the end of the day we still say "we all make mistakes" so If we all make mistakes and have a few things that we regret then why judge when you can accommodate,help,give and tolerate? Tell me what you think people,what are your views and what do you call judging and in what circumstances would you judge a person? Its been real,this is the Voice of R----> Be your own JUDGE! Follow @Ms_Bimanator Tweet